After Waiting Over 3 Years….WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!

After Waiting Over 3 Years….WE HAVE A TRAVEL DATE!!!!!

The Wait Is OVER!!!!!!

This is the post we have been waiting to write for OVER 3 years. This morning as I was out on a run, Shiela called who is our case worker from West Sands. It is actually kind of funny because everyday I watch the clock, do the math (since she is 2 hrs behind) and either say….there is no hope for today or okay it’s only 7:30am there, so there is still time for her to call! When my radio stopped playing because my phone was ringing, I thought…..please say her name! Sure enough….there it was! :-) WE HAVE A COURT DATE!!!!! Thank you for the extra prayers, they worked!!!

Throughout this whole process you are on an emotional roller coaster, there are times of pure joy and excitement and other times of sadness and hopelessness.  On January 1st when we received our referral, it was pure joy a surreal feeling that is so hard to explain. We have waited almost 7 months for this moment that we are about to embark on. Finally, we have a court date and will officially make our baby an OAKLEY!! So many questions about the trip, about the orphanage, about the people we will meet. Will he be scared of us, will he cry or smile, will he know that we have longed for him for years and years?  We hope he is able to feel a sense of peace, and know that we will love him and care for him forever and ever! We are ready to experience all of Ethiopia and their culture. We have heard numerous times how wonderful and beautiful the people are. We know this will be a positive and life changing trip, and we can’t wait to share it with all of you.

With our journey being a little over a week away, we have some time to pack and get prepped for the biggest trip of our life. We will fly 1/2 way around the world to provide a forever home for our son.

As of August 6th 2015 there will be one less orphan, and one more Oakley. 

Stay tuned and thank you SO much for ALL of your support throughout the last 3+ years. We will keep you updated and will post when we can while in Addis!

Much Love!

xo

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Letter and Prayers Needed!!!

Letter and Prayers Needed!!!

Just a short post to let you all know we are still waiting for MOWA to produce our letter, once our letter is complete we will receive a court date to travel. We are really down to the wire as court will be closing for the rainy season mid August. We would ask each of you to say an extra prayer for our family tonight and for baby boy Oakley. We need MOWA to produce our letter ASAP….like tomorrow!! The adoption process is so long and tiring, but we are so close. We need this one LAST step to happen so we can finally meet our son. Thank you all so much for the support we have received and for your continued prayers. 

 

xo

Things are starting to feel real!

Things are starting to feel real!

How can it be that we are waking up this morning at home, back from vacation and it’s Londyn’s 4th Birthday! It really is true, the older you get the faster time passes by. We had such a wonderful week away with truly great friends. The kind of friends that will last a lifetime, the kind of friends that have become family, the kind of friends that would do anything for us and our kids. As we were sitting on the beach we ALL couldn’t help but think about our next adventure, when we will travel to officially adopt our baby boy. To know that your friends and family are just as excited as you are, is unexplainable. To know that they long to see him dig in the sand, swim in the waves and cause havoc in the house with the other kids, is priceless.  How can it be that we are FINALLY able to think about Africa and travel plans. How can it be that we can almost officially say that our next beach photo with include a baby boy!

Words can’t explain how good that feels!

It’s hard to believe our baby girl turns 4 today. We never imagined that she would be celebrating without her brother home. However, this will be her last time blowing out the candles without a little munchkin trying to blow them out for her! :-)

Thanks to our FRIENDS for an amazing week full of wonderful memories, we LOVE you ALL!!!!!

xo

Final Step and We are A Comin’ For Ya

Final Step and We are A Comin’ For Ya

Well, today was a good day and another step in the right direction! We received a phone call from our agency and they said we were given a PRELIMINARY hearing date! Although this is not a travel date, it is the final step necessary step before we receive a date to travel. Our preliminary hearing is scheduled for June 30th. It is really hard to explain how you feel when you receive these calls. After waiting over 3 years, all we want to do is meet our son, see him in person and connect with the little boy we were meant to parent and call our own. It is surreal to think about the next step, the final step, the step we have been waiting and waiting and waiting for! Our hope today is that we are able to travel in July or early August. That is a BIG task and a lot to ask, but it can be done. There were several families who also received phone calls today, we are all hopeful that our cases will be processed and we will ALL travel before the rainy season.

PLEASE say a BIG HUGE prayer for our family, that we will make the cutoff and travel before the closure in August, that we will travel safe and sound and that all families waiting will receive GOOD news like we did today! We are coming for you baby boy, we are one step closer!!!

Below is a list of items we would love to start collecting (for anyone local) :-) We can hardly believe that we see a flicker at the end of the tunnel!! Thank you for following our journey and keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. Hoping there is more good news to come!! If you would like to send items to Ethiopia with us, please let me know!

xoxo

Baby/Children’s Shampoo Lice Shampoo Baby/Children’s Soap Hygiene products

Oral Hygiene Products
Diaper Cream, Powder, Lotion, Baby Wipes (even 2 packages will help!)  Nutramigen baby formula –  Pedialyte Packets

Rice Cereal Diapers – Cloth or Disposable - Surgical Gloves – Size Medium Children’s Tylenol and Pepto-Bismol Common Children’s Medications Children’s Vitamins - slip on closed toed shoes - Bedding (crib, twin and full sizes) Mosquito Nets

Toys
Books
Clothing (especially children 4-12, in good condition) DVD’s (learning or Disney)

A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words…

A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words…

They say a pictures is worth a thousand words, and I believe that is true. Yesterday we received some updated pictures of our baby boy. As always we fill with excitement and emotion about what’s to come, but we also are also reminded that he is growing up and getting older without us. Yesterday really made me stop and think about the process of life. Most of us are able to say that our parents can remember the day we were born, the excitement of the hospital and all the stories that go along with that. Family members in the waiting room and signs in the yard upon your arrival home. For us personally, we planned to have our girls and the support around us has been amazing since day one!

Seeing the pictures yesterday made me feel sad for all the children near and far that didn’t have the experiences that we did. The children that didn’t have family members waiting for their arrival, the children that never felt the sense of belonging, and for their parents who had to make extremely hard decisions. I have no doubt that they were all loved, but it is just disheartening to know that so many children have no idea what it means to have a family and feel as though they belong. It is easy to forget how others live, I am guilty of it myself. We have an amazing life and we truly are blessed for all that we have and have been given. His beautiful face tells an amazing story, he is deeply loved and I hope he will soon know what it is like to be showered with love, forever.  Please continue to keep our son, and all children “waiting” in your thoughts and prayers. We are still hoping for a miracle and need quick movement so we can travel for court.

Looking forward to the day we meet little one, you are loved!!!!

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xo

We need a miracle to beat the rain..

We need a miracle to beat the rain..

What a long fun weekend with Family and Friends! I am happy to report that we are getting closer in our journey to bring baby boy Oakley home. On May 22nd our PAIR letter made it to Ethiopia and was signed for at 5:02 pm. This means, our PAIR letter will now be filed with the Ethiopian courts and we are one step closer to traveling. At this point, we will be issued 2 court dates. The first date is the preliminary date that we do not travel for. Our agency will represent our family and provide final consent to the court.  Once the preliminary hearing has passed and MOWYCA has issued their letter of recommendation the court will issue a 2nd hearing which we will attend and give our consent!!! Although we are close, we still have a ways to go. Please keep our family and all families waiting in your thoughts and prayers. We hope they process quickly and issue court dates. We need to travel before August because they close for the rainy season. We are hoping for a miracle and would love to travel in late July (which will take a miracle)….  We don’t want to get stuck and if we don’t travel before rainy season, we have to wait until the courts reopen in October. After 3 long years, we are in the final stretch and couldn’t be more excited about meeting our soon to be son. I know I mentioned in my last blog that I would add the list of items that would be helpful donations for the orphanages. I will work on that tonight for anyone interested and will post soon!

 Please pray for QUICK movement…. we need a miracle to beat the rain.
xo

Mother Day 2015 1, 2, 3 …….. “4″

Mother Day 2015 1, 2, 3 …….. “4″

There is something special about this Mother’s Day! We finally know that this will be my last Mother’s Day as a mommy of 3. It is a surreal feeling knowing that a toddler will soon be joining our family and ruling the roost. For 3 years we have wondered when we would meet and knowing that it will be soon, is simply unbelievable.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there and especially to our amazing mom, Gail! We are unbelievably lucky to have had amazing support throughout this journey. It has not been easy, it has not always been glamorous, it has been long and trying and we could not have done it without our support system. So today as you celebrate all the moms out there near and far, also celebrate all the children who are anxiously awaiting their opportunity to celebrate with their mom. Knowing that baby Oakley will be here to sign the card with his sisters next year is the best gift ever. We are so lucky!

xoxo

The “Golden” Ticket

The “Golden” Ticket

Exactly one week ago we posted that we received some good news. Once again, more good news has hit the Oakley house. We are another step closer to traveling and meeting our baby boy. We received what I call the “golden” ticket in the mail yesterday. I didn’t think it would actually be in the mail that quickly, but sure enough it was there! We will send the checks and all of the necessary paperwork off today, then wait for it to get to Ethiopia so we can be filed with Federal Court. This is not the end, but it is a major piece to the adoption puzzle. We are thankful that the time between PAIR approval and receiving the “golden” ticket (PAIR letter in the mail) was only one week apart!

Once we are filed, we will just sit and wait…..travel is getting closer and closer. For anyone local, Aron and I would love to bring big rubbermaid containers filled with donations for the orphanages. Be on the lookout for a list of items that our agency suggested, I will post them soon!

Keep sending positive thoughts our way, we are making progress!!

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Some Good News…Finally!

Some Good News…Finally!

Today has been a great day! We woke up to an email that said our Orphan Investigation has been completed! We  checked our email daily, sometimes even multiple times a day, waiting for this email.  It feels like we have been in limbo the past couple of months without really knowing when they would complete our case. Our poor case workers probably hate seeing our name in their inbox! haha!! :-) So what this means is they have reviewed all of our documents, asked for clarification in many areas, interviewed who they thought they needed to, and finally passed our I-604 results to the NBC who will issue us our PAIR letter. Phew…BUT we are not done yet!!!! Once we receive our PAIR letter we will send the letter out for authentication and it will be sent to Ethiopia! Again….not done yet….once it’s filed with the courts in Ethiopia, the courts will issue 2 hearings. The first is a preliminary hearing that we do not attend, once that passes and the MOWCYA has issued their letter of recommendation the court will issue the 2nd hearing in which OUR family travels!! From our understanding the courts have been pretty slow (UGH), we hope they happen to speed things up and get families traveling quicker. The rainy season is approaching and typically the courts close middle of August through October. As long as we stay on track and make our first trip BEFORE August….we will not get delayed. We have been told that after we receive our PAIR letter, we may travel 2 months later. Please keep your fingers crossed for our family and every family involved in the adoption process. It is LONG, TIRING, and DRAWN out….but we know it will ALL be worth it!! We can’t wait to meet our sweet baby boy!! We’re coming for you!!!! xoxo

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The Wait Continues …. And….Rodan + Fields

The Wait Continues …. And….Rodan + Fields

I know it has been a few weeks since my last post. To be honest, we really don’t have any news to share. We are still in the orphan investigation stage and I feel like we are stuck here. When I see the email from Ethiopia …a sense of panic comes over me. You want to open the email and you want to see Ethiopia in the subject, but do you really want to see the words “Request For More Information” AGAIN!!! NO! We are trying to hold on, but days roll into weeks and weeks roll into months. This is all taking much longer than anticipated, and to be honest, we have no idea when we will finally meet him. People ask me all the time when will we travel, it use to be that I would say May or June….now I find myself saying June or July and even that feels iffy. We really just hope and pray that the investigation will be finished VERY soon so we can finally move on to the next phase. (which is not a fast process either)!!

This week is our girls spring break, and due to the traveling to Ethiopia twice (somewhat soon) we decided to forgo the beach trip we had planned. Bummer for the girls, but also works out great because we are taking them to TN to meet up with a high school bestie! They know that we have to “save” to get our little one home, so they haven’t complained too much.

On that note, I decided to join a good friend in a journey to help cover the costs of our flights. Yes, I am still a real estate agent, no changes there :-) loving it and doing well …however I am also a consultant for Rodan + Fields skin care, as a little side gig. :-) What’s funny is I have really always been the type to say “that is not for me” or “I could never do that” the truth is, why can’t I? I LOVE business, I LOVE traveling, I LOVE design, I LOVE success, I LOVE providing for my family and others, I LOVE giving and most importantly I LOVE our girls and our son who is depending on us. So I said to myself, go for it and give it a try! Worst case, you have awesome skin care products and decide spreading the word isn’t for you, or best case, you love it and are able to cover flights and other adoption expenses! Either way, it is all with the best intension and passion to live and provide the best life possible! Life is short, we should all enjoy the journey and that’s what we are trying to do!! :-)

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XO